- 1 Do you wear black to a viewing?
- 2 What do you wear to a summer funeral visitation?
- 3 What do you wear to a viewing wake?
- 4 Can you wear a hat to a visitation?
- 5 How long should you stay at a viewing?
- 6 Are you supposed to bring anything to a viewing?
- 7 What do you say at a visitation?
- 8 Can I wear black jeans to a funeral?
- 9 What colors are appropriate for a funeral?
- 10 Is a wake or funeral more formal?
- 11 What do you do at a viewing?
- 12 What is appropriate attire for a viewing?
- 13 What should you not wear to a funeral?
- 14 Can I wear leggings to a funeral?
- 15 How do you pay respects at a wake?
Do you wear black to a viewing?
When attending a visitation it is best to dress conservatively. While most people typically wear black or other dark colors to anything funeral-related, that is not necessary. What you wear should be subdued, unless otherwise requested by the family.
What do you wear to a summer funeral visitation?
Gaucho pants or dressy capris may be fine. For men, suits are always appropriate, but if a suit isn’t your preference a pair of nice slacks in a solid, dark color will work. A dress shirt (as opposed to a golf shirt or tee shirt) is appropriate. For women, attire should be modest.
What do you wear to a viewing wake?
What should I wear?
- Wear low-key colors. You don’t have to wear black but a wake isn’t the place to wear your leopard print blouse or salmon colored khakis.
- Keep your accessories simple. Your accessories should be simple and neutral.
- Keep patterns simple.
- Don’t go too casual.
- Stay away from festive or fun attire.
Can you wear a hat to a visitation?
Shoes and Hats Shoes should either be flats or modest heels, no stilettos and nothing flashy. In some cultures and regions, women wear hats. If hats are commonly worn in your community, church, or culture, then you should opt for a modest design and nothing oversized or extravagant.
How long should you stay at a viewing?
Answer: It is appropriate to spend at least 15 minutes at the visitation. This should give you enough time to sign the guest book, have a drink, and express your condolences to the family. You can stay longer as you feel is appropriate.
Are you supposed to bring anything to a viewing?
The most important thing is to honor the wishes of the family. It’s best not to bring flowers, plants, or donations with you to the funeral. After all, the family doesn’t need another thing to handle on such an emotional day.
What do you say at a visitation?
When attending a visitation, here are examples of what you can say to the family:
- My condolences.
- I’m really sorry you’re going through this.
- Your mom was a wonderful woman.
- You loved him/her well.
- I’m thinking of your family during this difficult time.
Can I wear black jeans to a funeral?
Can you wear jeans to a funeral? The most common answer is that jeans aren’t considered appropriate funeral etiquette unless requested by the family. However, dark, unembellished jeans paired with a shirt, tie, and blazer for men or a blouse and a blazer for women can be appropriate for a casual service.
What colors are appropriate for a funeral?
Black is the traditional color for funeral services. It’s generally acceptable to wear non-black clothing, such as dark blue or gray. Stick with subdued colors and fabric textures so that you don’t pull attention away from the person who is being honored. Avoid red, bright pink, orange, yellow, or other bright colors.
Is a wake or funeral more formal?
What’s a Wake? Wakes are less formal than funerals, and some follow certain rituals. Some families choose to host a funeral and a wake, the wake taking place a day before the funeral service. This is so those who don’t or can’t attend the funeral can still get a chance to share their condolences with the family.
What do you do at a viewing?
A viewing is an unstructured gathering of friends and family where visitors can pay their respects to either the deceased after having been prepared by a mortician, or to a cremation urn or series of memorial photos. A viewing, compared to a funeral, is generally a more informal event.
What is appropriate attire for a viewing?
We recommend wearing dark or neutral colors, to avoid standing out in the crowd. Darker colors reflect the mourning atmosphere of the service or visitation. Men will generally wear suits or dress pants, dress shirts and jackets along with a subtle tie. Women typically wear pants, skirts and blouses, dresses or suits.
What should you not wear to a funeral?
What Women Should Not Wear to a Funeral. Avoid mini-skirts, low-cut blouses or dresses, and spandex. You don’t want to draw attention to yourself. Women may wear skirts and blouses, dresses, or pantsuits that don’t emphasize your curves, cleavage, or too much leg.
Can I wear leggings to a funeral?
Depends on both and footwear. Some would say it’s never acceptable to wear leggings. I think leggings are probably too casual, tbh, assuming traditional church funeral. However if it was an older person I would think leggings were a bit too casual.
How do you pay respects at a wake?
Paying Respects and Joss Sticks To pay your respects, you may bow in front of the altar of the deceased. While bowing, you may offer a quiet prayer, or simply speak a few words in your heart to the deceased. This is considered to be universally acceptable behaviour, regardless of religious beliefs.